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Why is everything in Life Temporary

Why is Everything in Life TemporaryA while ago, I went to my parents’ home to do a little house sitting while they were gone on vacation. They live in the same house today where I grew up, not ten minutes from where I live now. (I have come far!) On some level, this place will always be home. As I sat in this moncler outlet sale empty house, I found myself thinking of the day when my parents will moncler sale no longer live in it. It’s hard for me to imagine this anchor no longer being there. It would be like the sun not coming up https://www.cheapmoncler.com . After all, from my perspective, it has been my parents’ eternal home.

My mom and dad both turned 70 within the past year. Birthdays are the holidays more than any other that measure the passage of moncler womens jackets time. They are the only days other than wedding anniversaries that are defined by a number. (No one ever says that they are celebrating their forty seventh Christmas or their twenty eighth Arbor Day.) It wasn’t too long ago that uk moncler outlet seventy was an age that I only associated with grandparents. It was also roughly the age of three of my grandparents when they died.

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We all know that everything in life is temporary, and we deal with this reality in different ways. Some reassure moncler uk outlet themselves through faith in some sort of a positive afterlife to come for themselves and their loved ones. Some try not to think about death, fighting it off by taking steps to appear or feel eternally young or distracting themselves with the concerns of everyday life. I have fluctuated between all of moncler usa these states of mind at different times in my life. At the moment, however, I moncler outlet store am unaware of any conception of an afterlife that makes any sense, and when moncler online store tragedies occur, the reality of death becomes unavoidable.

So why does everything have to be temporary? For nostalgic people like me who can see on a daily basis the places and people that are so closely associated with every event in my life, the passage of time, and the inevitability of death and deterioration, are constantly in my face. I would prefer that certain people and things last forever. And for a person who spends his life moncler outlet prices teaching history, I am well aware of how forgotten both myself and my world will be in the not so distant future. An atheist would argue that there is no answer to this question. Life just is what it is. Many religious adherents would say that the temporary nature of life should drive you to focus on the ultimate spiritual reality that will guide you eventually to an eternal home.

Now I don’t know if there is any kind of a divine plan. If there is, the planner(s) has cheap moncler coats mens not made it particularly clear. So is there any reason why some moncler sale online sort of a creative force(s) would just leave us hanging, stuck pondering the great questions of life? Why did he (or she or it) create us to live with the possibility that we might ultimately be snuffed out? For the sake of argument, I am going to assume that best moncler jackets there is a divine plan that the creative force(s) has chosen to keep somewhat secret. I am also going to assume that this force(s) has positive motives and is not just creating some playthings to use for entertainment. If we were guaranteed of eternal life, would we be able to appreciate life fully? Maybe something can only be truly precious if you know that it will someday be gone.

So often, people convinced that they know the answers to life’s great questions have seemed cheap moncler jackets mens somewhat smug and callous to me, unable to relate to the the struggles of the rest of us unenlightened mere mortals. By realizing moncler outlet the moncler outlet online “truth,” they have been freed from fully experiencing the cheap moncler sale pain caused by the temporary nature of all things. In my view, by immersing themselves in the “spiritual,” some people lose a certain amount of empathy for those struggling with their humanity. In a sense, “the enlightened” are no longer fully human.

Maybe real joy, sacrifice, ethics, and compassion can only exist in a temporary world filled with pain discount moncler jackets and uncertainty. After all, if we were given a guaranteed path toward eternal life, then our choice to take that path would be, to some degree, selfish. But if you choose a sacrificial, ethical path without any guarantee of a reward, then you have done something truly selfless. Pain, injustice, and death and the possibility that this life may be all that we have stink, but without the things that make life tough, can we ever be truly joyful, compassionate, ethical, and, ultimately, alive?

Helen Stuart 23 months ago from Deep in the Heart of Texas

Why would spiritual laws be lesser than the moncler sale outlet laws of science. We are both spiritual and scientific beings. Spirit makes you ask these questions. The laws of physics and science declare that energy cannot be destroyed. How then can the much more mysterious and intense spiritual laws be any different. Only truer. Life for most humans is quite long if they work through it. And when physical death comes, neither the body or the spirit is relinquished.

Anthony Isaac Wells 4 years ago

Because life is temporary!

Maria Janta Cooper 7 years ago from UK

I like your hub pretty much, like the way you have written. Somebody has told me that there is no time, everything happens at the same time. It’s not easy to imagine. Are we growing up and dying at the same time? OK, it is 3 AM time uk moncler sale to go to bed, not the best time to write philosophical stuff cheap moncler coats . Good night :)

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